How To Make The Change So Women Find You Interesting Again
In this article I'm going to answer a recent email I received.
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Dear David,
I try to read all your newsletters -- I'm married for 12 years and
trying to figure out how to de-wussify my self. It's not easy, and
you don't help even a little because you don't give "relationship
advice."
But I try to find ways to be unpredictable and cocky + funny with my wife...
And any other woman I meet. I'm a religious professional, so I've
got some real limitations to
work within, but I'm pretty sure teasing women isn't a sin, and it
lights me up.
I went through a phase where I figured you wrote the letters. But
having read them for a while now,
I'm convinced you're not that kind of genius.
"Pick the one with more money." -- I was worried someone at my
office was going to ask me why I was
laughing so loud. "You suck and all men wish they were you." Well,
as a religious professional, I
have to say you suck double.
Here's one example of what I did right. (I think.)
She was in the shower, so I walked in too.
Her: "You came into my shower."
Me: "Wouldn't you if you were me and there was a beautiful,
steamy,
sexy naked woman in here?"
Her: "I suppose so."
Me: "But you'll have to do."
Her: (Total shift in attitude.) "Hey, mister, you're losing opportunities that way."
Me: "I've got opportunities coming out of my ears."
(I'm not sure she believed that, but I couldn't think what else to
say.)
She didn't make any moves that day, but the next day she was happily
receptive.
Still if you have any advice on how to stimulate attraction in a
woman who's seen you at your
wussiest I'd love to hear it. I'm not walking out of the
relationship or going to introducing
"distance" that would be unfitting for a couple married for a long
while, so don't go there.
But I'd love to get some more ideas of how to push her buttons.
J, Denver
My Reply:
I don't know, there's just something about a guy who tells me "You
suck double" that I just
can't resist...
OK, so you tugged at my heart-strings a little with the "I'm a
religious professional
who's been married 12 years and I want to make my wife dig me more"
bit.
You're doing pretty well.
I like the whole shower routine... right up until the very last
part.
When she shifted tone and said, "Hey, mister, you're losing
opportunities that way" and you
answered, "I've got opportunities coming out of my ears", you went
off course.
Instead, when she says, "You're losing opportunities that way", say,
"I'm the opportunity
here, and you might want to take advantage of it while it's
available"... then splash some water on
her, shower her, wink at her, and GET OUT.
Have you ever played with a dog?
How do you make a dog LOVE you?
You chase it, then run away.
What does the dog do?
Of course, it chases YOU.
Then it might get tired... so you chase it a little again... and
then run away.
You've been acting like a Wuss for 12 years.
Keep evicting the inner Wuss more and more over time, and who knows?
You might actually become interesting to your wife again...
I could go on and on about it, but if you're interested in learning
more about this change of action, then
go here and read
THIS.
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